Anxiety is everywhere.
It’s the silent struggle that so many women carry behind smiles and busy schedules. It may feel like a relentless pressure in the chest, a mind that won’t rest, or a heart that anticipates the worst.
Our culture calls anxiety normal. It’s talked about as if it’s just a part of modern life. It is something to accept, manage, or medicate. And while there can be extreme cases where medical intervention may be appropriate, we must not ignore a deeper, more foundational truth:
Anxiety is first and foremost a spiritual issue.
As a board-certified mental health coach with a degree in psychology, I fully understand anxiety as a clinical diagnosis. I recognize the real psychological and physiological symptoms that many women face. There are times when professional help and even medication are necessary, especially in acute or trauma-related cases. But in most situations, especially for Christian women, anxiety reveals a deeper heart issue: a struggle to trust in God’s care, His provision, and His sovereignty. The world offers coping mechanisms. God offers transformation through trust in Him.
In Philippians 4:6–7, we read:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
This is not a gentle suggestion. It is a command. “Do not be anxious about anything.” And it’s not a cruel or cold command, either. It’s a loving invitation from a Father who wants us to live free, grounded in peace that only He can give.
When we give into anxiety, we are often forgetting who God is.
We’re saying (even unknowingly), “God, I don’t believe You’re in control.”
Or, “I’m not sure You’ll take care of me.”
It is, at its core, a lack of trust in the sovereignty, goodness, and care of our Lord.
But Jesus gently reminds us of God’s faithfulness in Luke 12:24–27:
“Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds!… Consider the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.”
The birds don’t stress about their next meal. The flowers don’t worry about how they’ll bloom. And yet, God sustains them beautifully.
How much more will He care for you, daughter of the King?
Anxiety doesn’t shrink when we repeat positive affirmations.
It doesn’t dissolve with distraction or hustle.
It fades, truly and deeply, when we trust in the Lord with our whole heart (Proverbs 3:5).
So what can we do instead of worrying?
- Pray honestly. Pour it all out before the Lord. Be specific. He already knows, and He cares.
- Give thanks. Shift your gaze to what God has done. Gratitude will quiet fear.
- Remember His character. He is sovereign. He is good. He is near.
- Let go of control. You are not the savior of your home, your kids, or your future. He is.
When we do this, Philippians 4 tells us something amazing happens:
The peace of God will guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
Not just any peace, but the supernatural, divine peace that doesn’t make human sense.
Sister, you were not made to live in fear.
You were made to walk in peace. Our peace does not come because our life becomes predictable and easy, but because God is unshakable.
If you’re weary from carrying anxiety alone, let’s talk.
At A Fruitful Home, I help women like you walk through fear with faith, grounded in Scripture, guided by truth, and rooted in God’s love.
Reach out anytime for biblical coaching, for wives, moms, and women desiring the peace of Christ.
You are seen. You are valued. You are held in the palm of our Father’s hand.
Let the birds remind you. Let the flowers preach.
He is faithful.